Remember The Stockdale Paradox
As we seek this deeper wisdom within paradoxes, we also need to remember The Stockade Paradox. Jim Collins writes about this paradox in his book, Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap. . . and Others Don't (HarperBusiness, 2001). The paradox originated from Navy Vice Admiral, James Stockade’s experiences as a POW during the Vietnam War, where he survived years of torture and deprivation by balancing his harsh and painful reality with a strong belief in a better future. As Collins explains, this paradox is based on the ability to “retain absolute faith that you can and will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties, AND at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.”
By combining a realistic acceptance of our current challenges, i.e. working within a VUCA environment, with a stedfast and optimistic outlook, i.e. we can, and we will over time prevail in the midst of this prolonged uncertainty, we can, and we will generate successful outcomes. In short, by holding two contradictory truths at the same time, and with regular coaching and support, leaders can get better at leading in the midst of these challenges.
Still, we need to remember one other key point from the aforementioned book. As Collins writes, “Good is the enemy of great.” Right now, many leaders and managers can, to a degree, embrace The Stockdale Paradox, but when it comes to the point that they need to make a decision, I often hear them defer to a that’s good enough mentality. This is a major problem when dealing with prolonged uncertainty. It often reflects decision fatigue, cognitive overload, and a touch of just wanting to give up and go with the path of least resistance.
I can not fault leaders who choose this path. That would be an example of grit gaslighting. As Tasha Eurich in her book, Shatterproof: How to Thrive in a World of Constant Chaos (And why resilience alone isn’t enough) (Little, Brown Spark, 2025), explains: “… grit gaslighting, a common phenomena, where, instead of validating our stress or distress, our commitment to coping with it is questioned. Often, grit gaslighting comes from people in positions of authority or well-meaning but unaware family and friends.” I have met many people who are deeply committed to the work they are doing, and completely overwhelmed and exhausted by the complexity and uncertainty that surrounds them. To solve this problem in the world of leadership, we need to approach this as a team problem, not just an individual effort problem.
Surround Yourself With The Right People
Patrick Lencioni in his book, The Four Obsessions of an Extraordinary Executive (Jossey-Bass, 2000), writes about the importance of building and maintaining a cohesive leadership team. As he notes, “cohesive teams build trust, eliminate politics and increase efficiency by knowing one another's unique strengths and weaknesses, openly engaging in constructive ideological conflict, holding one another accountable for behaviors and actions, [and] committing to group decisions.” In this kind of team environment, grit gaslighting would not be permissible or accepted. Instead, there would be open and engaging discussions about what are, and what are not acceptable, behavioral choices.
But, upon reflection, I think leaders jump too quickly to a focus on improving teamwork during prolonged uncertainty, and miss a key point of Lencioni’s work, namely to build the team, not just improve or maintain the team. The focus on building the team is often skipped over in the rush to get things done.
Martine Haas and Mark Mortensen in their article called “The Secrets of Great Teamwork” from the June 2016 issue of the Harvard Business Review, writes, “Today’s teams are different from the teams of the past: They’re far more diverse, dispersed, digital, and dynamic (with frequent changes in membership).” From my perspective, given this important insight, we need to make sure we have “the right people in the right seats on the bus,” referencing the work of Jim Collins in his book, Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap. . . and Others Don't (HarperBusiness, 2001).
The difficulty of this metaphor is that Collins did not initially define what are the characteristics of “the right people.” It was not until he wrote the book, How The Mighty Fall and Why Some Companies Never Give In (HarperCollins, 2009), that he gave a clear answer to the question, “What makes for the ‘Right People’ in key seats?.” In this book, he gives the following answer: “the right people fit with the company’s core values; the right people don’t need to be tightly managed; the right people understand that they do not have ‘jobs’, they have responsibilities; the right people fulfill their commitments; the right people are passionate about the company and its work; the right people display ‘window and mirror’ maturity.” The outcome of choosing the right people when building a team and later maintaining or improving it, is that you create a culture of discipline and a shared mindset based on a common understanding of what matters most. You also are choosing people who have a combination of technical and social skills that can handle uncertainty.
Nevertheless, we as leaders need to make some tough choices when it comes to people. First, we must stop hiring and retaining people who routinely screw things up, or create levels of disruptive toxicity at the team level. If we tolerate these poor and misaligned behaviors, we will consistently have issues and problems that take our time and attention away from focusing on the right things, operationally and strategically. Having the right people in place reduces distractions and increases engagement and healthy teamwork, all of which is vital to coping with prolonged uncertainty.
© Geery Howe 2026