Any Small Calm Thing

“Ours is not the task of fixing the entire world all at once, but of stretching out to mend the part of the world that is within reach,” writes Clarissa Pinkola Estes. “Any small calm thing that one soul can do to help another soul, to assist some portion of this poor suffering world, will help immensely.” 

Truer words have not been written. And truer words need to be spoken and shared at this time period. Right now, we need more people who are willing, ready, and able to assist those who are suffering and struggling. These small acts may not fix the entire world, but they can make an immense difference in the world within our reach. 

So, where do we begin?

First, we need to give ourselves time, space and permission to reflect before engaging in action. Being centered is a solid foundation for clarity and purpose. 

Second, we need to learn how to bring people along with us on the journey of change and transformation. While our first action may be singular, the goal is to create collective action over time. 

Third, we need to discern the difference between trauma and adversity, recognizing that dealing with adversity is a normal part of life. And understanding that dealing with trauma requires the assistance of trained and experienced professionals. 

Fourth, we need to separate task conflicts from emotional conflicts. 

And finally, we need to learn, unlearn, and relearn how to listen and communicate well. 

All five of these actions need to be done again and again. Then, they will have the potential to unite us and empower us. Then, they will become a flywheel of compassion and transformation. 

The world is complex and dynamic right now. People are struggling. And yet, we are not powerless. We can do small things to help. We can reach out and mend the world that is within in our reach. And this will make a difference. 

So, on this new day, begin where you, with what you have, and remember that you could be the person that someone has been waiting for and hoping for in the midst of their difficulties. 

© Geery Howe 2026

Geery Howe, M.A. Executive Coach in Leadership, Strategic Planning, and Organizational Change